my issue is pretty simple (to explain you see). I am 22 years old girl and I am lonely as fuck. In the romantic area. I have friends, I am outgoing, I am always out there meeting new people and having fun. So nothing missing in the friendship area. I wasn't upset about not having a boyfriend until not so long ago, but it started to dawn on me that I am no longer 17 and that it is kind of weird that I have never been kissed, or had sex. Yeah, that is right.
I am well aware of all my physical flaws that make my selfesteem drop down to Australia (I am from Europe you see), but I am also aware that I can't be the worst looking girl on this planet (I wear glasses and my upper two front teeth are a bit crooked, but nothing out of this world). I think I have a chilled, fun personality, but yeah sure I am not a saint either. Just your normal neighbourhood girl. So... my question is, what THE HECK is wrong with me? I am feeling very very lonely, it is slowly slipping to depression, some days it is better (usually due to the amount of work), some days it is worse. So, any advice? I know this is tough to answer. I add some pictures on the links below. And hey, I am not an attention seeker, just VERY DESPERATE. Thanks in advance.
P. S. Would prefer answers from guys, no offence ladies.
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Do you have any hobbies or interests? Any places you can go to socialize with like-minded people? I think the reason a lot of good girls like yourself don't meet any guys is because you tend to be more shy/introverted and stay at home most evenings. You have to get out there if you hope to meet anyone.
That said, don't fall for the first guy who tells you what you want to hear. A lot of guys within a week of seeing you will be like, "I love you baby." "I need you!" "I don't know what I'd do without you!" "You're the most amazing woman ever!" etc. When you're lonely it's easy to fall for such tricks.0
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