I went out with this guy for the first time on Friday. He was very nice and chill but he was about 10 minutes late. He did call to say he would be late and apologized profusely upon arrival so I did say I would go out with him again when he asked. Now I just got back today from an overnight trip and it's a 4 hour drive. He lives on the other side of town. He knew this yet still texted me around the time I said I'd be getting back asking if I had jumper cables because he needs a jump. I know he is new to the area so he probably doesn't know many people but I'm completely turned off that he would ask me to inconvenience myself this way and we have only gone out once. I didn't go over there. Am I a mean person?
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Your First Impression of him was Not a good one, sweetie. Already You have this Sour ball in your mouth about him. However, you let it go, and Okay, in my book, not really a big deal.
However, I feel that he is getting His 'First impression' of being 'Ms. Nice girl,' Maybe feeling, although not really knowing You all too well, And Not even have Had a---Second round as in a shot just yet--------That he thought he could take a little Advantage of your Kindness, mistaking it for weakness, and by Him 'Jumping to conclusions' with This Idea That took------Balls. Now, it's starting to be a----Big deal, in my book.
Unless you were the only soul on earth 'He knows in this area,' there was no real Excuse, unless he was looking for one to get you Over there, to either give him this helping hand or just to Hold yours and make an Excuse to see you again.
I have had to grab a stranger or two in my life many times for a jump, in Many a store, and Never Once had a problem finding some schmo to 'Jump me,' if you will please Excuse my pun. The way I see it, he Called on you because he probably figured he Knew he could get you to run to him in a time of just Anything, and I would be Beware of Other things that could crop up with him----Before it gets to Round 3 with this guy.
Now he has a sour ball in my mouth...
PS... You're 'Not family' neither...
Good luck. xx1