Will any girls be understanding?
Is it bad to not be able to talk to girls you're attracted to?
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What Guys Said 1
It is kind of bad but you shouldn't worry because that's a normal problem most guys have who are inexperienced.
You want to be able to talk to girls you're attracted to because "talking" is how we communicate and as a guy make ground and hopefully get to know a girl better.
From experience, I can say you want to be able to talk to girls you're attracted to and that comes from practice and more experience. Talk to a lot of girls and eventually you'll get better.
One thing you can do early on is to tell a girl you're attracted to, "Hey I am kind of shy but I just wanted to ask you something or talk to you." If she is a decent person she won't shut you down. Saying this to a girl won't necessarily make her instantly like you but at least she has an explanation for why you are acting the way you do.
Sure there are some girls who will be able to overlook shyness and awkwardness in a guy but in general not being to communicate effectively would cause a problem.0
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