I'm a little confused if the guy I'm dating is a player or not.
He for sure makes me feel special- he will go out of his way to see me and spend time with me, lots of compliments, cute shows of affection like playing with my hands and hair and kisses.
He's always telling me how attractive and hot he thinks I am. I can tell his attraction is at least genuine because of the way he always wants to touch me and the way he looks at me.
He began talking about dating me on our second date. He said I'm someone who he would like to make his gf.
He's had a pretty good number of girlfriends. Definitely knows how to get a girl.
I haven't dated before and he told me he wants to be honest with me about his past. He has shared some ugly things with me that he knows I wouldn't like- like him going to a strip club.
He was slightly nervous in the beginning and when I asked him he said that i am different than most girls and he doesn't know how to go about getting to know me.
He understands my view on sex and how I'm planning on saving for marriage. When I told him he got upset because he didn't get why I would feel the need to. He got angry and said he wasn't trying to get in my pants and also seemed hurt that I would be worrying about that.
Despite knowing this he definitely REALLY wants sex. I can tell. It's just so obvious in the way he touches me and the way he talks about it. He doesn't pressure me to do anything though and did apologize when he pressured me a little once.
On one date he said I seemed sad and I told him that I felt guilty spending so much time with him when I have to study.
After that he said he would tone down the texting and that we could talk about dating officially after I'm more free.
He does refer to himself as my bf and use the word "we" or "our" accidentally. I've definitely caught it. He's also called me "baby" before.
Should I be worried that he isn't interested in committing to me right now? Or does he sound good?
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They're just in it for the sex.
They know not all girls will put out easily, so they manipulation and deception to build a false bond with a girl and then once they've used her for sex, they disappear and move on to the next girl.0