If you're a guy & your online dating. Would you meet up with a girl at your house? Like seriously 2 guys have suggested it & I'm like seriously offended each freaking time. 'No I don't want to be gang raped' is what I want to say. But it seems like no one knows whats appropriate any more. It's sad. Like does any guy out there think it would honestly be the best way to meet some one you don't even know?
Hey Guys WHERE would you first meet a girl with online dating?
What Guys Said 5
Some people feel that they can get a good feel and develop rapport well enough online to be comfortable meeting in person in a non-public place.
Some feel that they want a more intimate setting than some crowded, loud, public place, to meet.
But as a guy with this strange mutant power to understand women... I wouldn't invite a woman I met online to my place for the first time, because of exactly what u said;
the comfort level isn't there (in most cases) to meet someone in person for the first time at their home. Lots of crazy guys out here in the world today unfortunately.
I would pick somewhere like a park or the beach (i live in California so this is possible for me)... we can "create" a private space there that isn't as loud and overly crowded.
Just tell her what I'm wearing beforehand so she can easily find me... and let the meeting begin. :)
I have to honestly say that guys inviting a girl they meet online to their house as the FIRST in person meeting... are lacking awareness from a feminine point of view. :-P1
A neutral zone with plenty of witnesses if something goes down. My gf and I first met in front of shopping complex on campus before walking to the restaurant. Its a place with many security cameras, potential witnesses, help need by and a spot watched often by campus police. Never go to the guy's house. Pick a public spot you both know, with surveillance and help near by. Malls, outside of government buildings, near museums and libraries are good.1
Oh my god I've been trying to take any girl to a movie just to hang out! But yeah I think at a public place is nice. I always suggest parks/movies/coffee.1
Somewhere public and doing something that doesn't drag on for too long, such as meeting for coffee.2
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