I`m keeping this short: There`s a guy (19) that I met on fb. We have some mutual friends in real life. A few months ago we chatted and even texted (he asked my number) Then he asked for a date. He suggested the cinema or his place. Now that`s where I got confused. I`m only a 16 year old, so why would he even be interested? He bought a car, has his own place and works. I`m in 11th grade, naive/insecure/dreamer/virgin.. Everything that a guy wouldn`t want at that age (at any age I think), especially one that is ready to settle down. Don`t they like ambitious, dominant, (etc).. women? So, me NOT being so naive this time, I just ignored him.. knowing his intentions. Yesterday he started talking to me again on fb and reminded me that I promised him a date. So he asked me out again. I don`t know what to do. I feel flattered, I really do. But I`m just afraid that if I go to his place something will happen.. So I lied to him and said that my parents won`t let me even if wanted to, here`s what he answered: ``Do you want this 1%? Let the 99% behind. If I know it`s 2-sided i`ll talk to them and make sure we can go out `` After that I ignord him again. I can`t keep ignoring him can I? Tell me what to do
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Girl. Trust me; the only thing he's interested in is what's between your legs. No worthwhile, high quality 19 year old guy who happens to be a good man and have his sh*t together is going to be trying to date a 16 year old. No offense, but you two are at totally different phases in life. Any time a 19 year old who shows an interest in teenagers it's a red flag! It usually means he plans on taking advantage of you and trying to get away with stuff females in his own age group won't tolerate. Not only that, but he had no respect for your parent's wishes and selfishly tried to get you to go against them. That's another red flag!
Honey, you need to be more assertive otherwise this perv is going to keep harassing you. Straight up tell him "Look. You are way too old for me. You know it is ILLEGAL for you to be trying to take me on a date and in some states you can be CRIMINALLY CHARGED for coercing a minor? I already told you no. Stop being pushy." I think it's best if you block him from FB too.
Please don't be stupid. Not only is it ILLEGAL, but it's shady and the fact that he's so desperate and in your face about it is CREEPY. Plenty of young females have been raped because a guy flattered them... : / please don't become one of them.2
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