i'm ugly and when i go out to walk in town, all i see is beautiful attractive girls. Women who i will never ever get.
What's the point? If the only people who get those women are perfect guys.
I wonder if nature also does this with insects.
In other words, why doesn't nature just make me like the girls who are in my level of ugliness?
Why does nature make me like 10s when i'm a 1?
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I wish it did. I've never gone for men outside my league because I know they won't be attracted to me. I don't see the point in setting myself up for failure. So I stick with the guys in the same level of attractiveness but I am too ugly for them. There is this one guy who gets rejected by women all the time because he is short and kind of chubby, plus he has a scar running down his cheek. Him and I have always gotten along well, and I actually think there is something between us, but he won't go for me because of my face. It's not not pretty enough for him. He only wants girls who are at least 5'8 thin and beautiful. I'm 5'4, thin but my face is ugly.
Honestly, the men who are in my league are the ones who are the most mean to me. My friend once set me up with a really good looking guy, and he treated me well. We connected, but at the end he told me as politely as he could that he wasn't attracted to me. He apologized and wished me luck "because you're a great girl, and you deserve better." The other guys that are less attractive have actually made fun of me. Once even stood me up, and I later learned he saw me but didn't want me so he left. One of them said he'd rather be dead, and that if he was going to date me they'd have to pay him. That was just from looking at me. None of these guys know me personally, they just look at me and decide I am too ugly for them. I don't go for good-looking ones but if a friend has set me up with them, they are always very polite to me. I have never once had a good-looking man be mean to me.0