Ignore my last question ;)
I know that someone has a crush on me, and I want him to ask me out but I think he is too shy.. Is there something I can do so that he knows that I want him to ask me? is there a signal I can give without being direct.. I don't like being in control... :)
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Personally I would find an indirect approach irritating, but I'll attempt to be constructive.
Create opportunities for him to be alone with you. Invite him to join you in a collaborative craft or building project, or in an interesting adventure like urban exploration - the particular activity depends on your interests. The goal is to break the difficulty of making the first approach and getting to you alone. If watching a movie (in private, don't go out), be cuddly - something beautiful but not too artsy is best for the film, like some martial arts movies (Hero, or Crouching Tiger Hidden Dragon - but preferably Hero) or a Studio Ghibli film (Princess Mononoke gives a nice touch of action to keep a male interested). A good way to initiate a cuddle is by massaging hands - just ask for his hand and start doing it, slow like pushing mounds of wet sand.0