I'm a 22 year old Filipino dude born and raised in Miami. It's been hard throughout my life to even get a date although I'm making very slow progress. I've only been on 4 dates. It's a very materialistic city full of gorgeous Hispanic women that are a little out of my league and I tend to go for those girls lol. I prefer Hispanic women but I get nervous on what they might think about an interracial relationship even though I can pass as Hispanic looking. Women have many options here as well and tend to choose someone else over me. I'm decent looking and workout a lot. I've had some success but most of the time I fail and have to start again. Recently, I've showed clear interest in a couple girls and they all went on to choose a different man and it was very discouraging. It's mentally and sexually frustrating. My friends are all white. I like country, classic rock, football, basketball, drinking, smoking, and dive bars instead of clubs. I'm working with a min wage salary while I'm going to nursing school and honestly I DO want a relationship because I've never really been in a serious one. How should I change my approach? Any advice would be cool.
- You're aiming too high, lower your standards.14% (1)0% (0)12% (1)Vote
- It will all play out soon.71% (5)0% (0)62% (5)Vote
- You need more money.0% (0)100% (1)12% (1)Vote
- Man up and just keep asking girls out even if you get rejected.15% (1)0% (0)14% (1)Vote
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You need to move to a different city and expand your horizons haha. "It's a very materialistic city full of gorgeous Hispanic women..." doesn't sound all that appealing.3