My sister is 22 years old and dating a 28 year old guy. She is really secretive about him. She hasn't introduced him to any of the family, and does not even talk about him at all. In fact, she didn't even tell me she was dating anybody. I just heard this from my mom, who she told. She still lives at home due to some financial troubles, but is never at home because she sleeps at his place every night. If I bring him up, she ignores the subject completely and denies everything or starts screaming that it's not my business and calls me a bunch of horrible names for no reason. I noticed that she has a ring on her finger that I think is from him because she always tries to cover it up...
I know you are all going to say that it's okay that they are dating since they are both over 18 and adults. I understand that, but I just don't get this relationship. My sister is really insecure and hardly talks to anybody. This is her first boyfriend. I think she's just with him for that reason. But why would a 28 year old guy choose to date somebody so young? It seems disgusting and weird to me. They are at completely different points in life. How could she be happy with this? I'm not saying any of this to her, but it's really how I feel. I'm just gonna let it be cause I don't care what she does. Does anybody else think this age difference is weird?
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Nah, I don't think the age difference is weird. Or at least, it doesn't need to be weird.
People find love in seemingly strange places sometimes... who are we to judge what makes them happy?
I'd let this one go if I were you and not say anything, provided that the guy treats her well and the like one another.0