I met this guy at a party once and we got along really well. We exchanged numbers a bit and talked for quite a while, and then he asked to catch up. We caught up twice (2 weeks in a row) and then for a couple of weeks after that we were both really busy with studies and exams so we didn't catch up. Now the busy-ness has sort of tapered down and he texted me asking "do you want to catch up sometime next weekend?"
I said yes, of course, because I really want to see him. I'm just wondering - is this a third date? Or is it just a "friendly catch up" sort of thing.
Please, please, please tell me what you think. Thanks all :)
P. s - we are both 17 and now we have not kissed yet.
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Sounds to me like a date but more in a testing way. He may not be sure yet were the 2 of you stand with each other or there could be a lot of different things going on in his mind right now. He may be waiting to see how you are going to take it. It just seems to me he is testing the waters as to what you want it to be. So if you dress like its a date and act like it is then it will be. If you come across as a friendly meeting then thats what it will be. I think he is leaving the option up to you as to what it really is.0