ok here it goes... so please dont be rude or give silly answers.
i am a really nice girl, i like to go out and have a care free fun, eat food, play video games, paint, swim, workouts are my hobbies,
as for my nature, im sensitive and emotional, but i can keep up with the most high compromise in a relationship, i know what the other person needs even if they dont know it.
now as for my flaws, im can be rude due to misunderstanding, and i intend to repeat things again and again, i am slow so the other person has to explain things to me most of the time...
as for my worst flaw, i suffer from depression and low self esteem since i was a teen, iv been to professional thearapy, they say it can take up to 5 years for me to get treated.
this happend coz when i was younger, if i didn't to somthing right, my mother would attack on the way i look and compare me to other kids, saying they are better and smarter,
so now that im grownup, 23, when i was with my ex who was my first bf for the last 3 years, every girl he liked or crushed i would compare myself to her, but never told him coz it would be pointless. but its got even worse he left me for a gilr who looks like megan fox so my self esteem suffers more from that.
me and my ex new eacother since we were kids, we started dating when we were in our early 20's, he was the only guy i dated... but considering my high compromise the relationship lasted long due to it.
now that he left me for looks, and all the effort i put in for him, i can't compromise any longer for any one else,...
but over all would other guys still date me? i dont have much experiance coz i only dated one guy...
and please no rude or silly answers
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Honestly we all have our baggage, its what makes us who we are. If someone really loves you or wants you for you they will accept that and not hold it against you. As long as you are making an effort to combat those issues things are fine. if someone is going to hold who they are with at arms length the entire relationship then there is an issue.
I can say that your ex bf is an idiot. It also seems he thought it was ok to comment on every girl he saw. Honestly when I am with someone I only see them. I dont look, I dont crush, i dont anything. I will acknowledge someone is pretty, but they aren't the woman I am with so its moot. I only want who I am with, and thats it.
Physical apprearence only goes so far for me. Its the person's heart, the personality and what it is that makes them who they are. Thats what makes them beautiful. Someone who is humble, confident, and tender. Someone who can have an intelligent conversation. Thats what see as beautiful. If your ex bf was only worried about himself as it seems, then you are better off with out him.
I would love to date someone who I can talk to. If I have to explain things, thats fine. I have nephews who are range in ages so I am used to it. I am a big fan of communication and I will always make sure that my point is clear, so there are no misunderstandings. I just dealt with that recently and its a nightmare. Considering that she said she was a big fan of communication, but couldnt and wouldn't talk about things. You sound like someone I could and would like to get to know.
Its not over looking the flaws, its accepting them. If you love someone you love them for all their merits and flaws. Not just the positive. Because we are not always going to be at our best, and sometimes we will get grumpy. (I get grumpy in the mornings without coffee). But you accept them for who they are.3