Ok, so lately I've been meeting a lot of girls and going on dates frequently. None of which has sparked anything substantial. So, I was talking to my dad about saving money, and he said I should stop going on so many dates because it's a waste of money and hasn't led to anything thus far. He then said that "most of the girls probably don't like you anyway. They just tolerate you to get a free meal." We keep it real in my family (or at least give our honest opinions lol).
So, I want to pose a question to the ladies. Would you go out on a date with a guy that you don't particularly care for just to get a free meal, or whatever else the case may entail? Be honest. This is a judgement free zone. I just want to obtain a small sample study. haha. Fellas can chime in on your thoughts too. Thanks in advance.
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Personally, no. I find first dates awkward enough as it is, so I'm not going to sit through one with a guy I'm not into. But I have friends who would go on a date, not necessarily for a free meal, with a guy they don't see it going anywhere with. Maybe they like the attention, or just are better at giving people a chance than me... Who knows.
The solution may not be dating less, just dating differently. There are plenty of much more cost-efficient dates you could go on, especially for a first date when you don't know if they're really that interested.4