so I meet this new girl not long after I broke up with ex gf , I never really mentioned ex when we first meet. but it sort of came out during conversation I was having at bar with other people and she might of over heard.
I'm just sort of wondering , does it make her just look like a rebound option as I was upset over ex? but were not dating yet just getting to know each other
Most Helpful Girl
I'm not sure I understand the problem... any girl that is not a stage one psycho is going to be understanding of the fact that you have a past. It is all about the communication. If you really like this girl, be upfront with her, tell her you thought she might have overheard a conversation about your ex and ask her if she has any questions or concerns. She may shrug her shoulders and say who cares, she may want to ask you a bunch of questions to reassure herself that she isn't, like you stated, a rebound. It's all about being open and communicating.0
Most Helpful Guy
Dude, when possible, refrain from commenting on your ex, which is generally interpreted as a sign that you are yet to be over her, while you attempt to date this new woman.
I mean, do you not know that venting and talking about an ex are tell-tale signs that one is not over their breakup? Let it go, man. Let it go.0