I'm married and so is this cute co worker of mine. When I first started this girl would stare at me in meetings and flip her hair around like crazy until I looked. She would also frequent areas I'd be and I would run into her all the time. She always looked at me with this deer in the headlights look. Whether it was standing next to me at a company outing or coming back to my office asking a random question and just lingering she was always around. One day I stopped her in the hall to chat alone and her face went flush and she could barely talk she was so nervous. From there we started meeting in the hall way or break room every morning and we'd walk and talk. She'd do this for many days in a row then dissappear on me then come back and repeat. I thought this strange so id occasionally ignore her and switch it up. This would make her come looking for me again. I also noticed she would flirt with a buddy of mine, sometimes like right in front of me, sometimes she'd watch me while she did it. She's not really a flirt so I didn't get it. At this point I decided to ignore her hard for almost 2 months. I know she was not happy with me. If go up to her desk occasionally and say hi, she's give me this cold shoulder barely turn around stuff and act short. Like I did her. I felt something may happen and that's same buddy tells me one day that she has been following him out to parking lot all the time and walks and talks with him like she and I used to. What's her deal?
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She like's you and is trying to get a reaction out of you by flirting with your friend and ignoring you, she is trying to make you jealous and play hard to get. but also you're married so why do you care? is there no such thing as loyalty now a days. you both need to be adults about this and not adulterers and stop playing with eachother and get back to being faithful to your spouses.1
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