Since completing high school and recently completing college... I seem to always find myself just deleting people from my life. I just feel like people are really self-center... and I want to know if I am right for the feeling the way I do.
-My friends NEVER text me at all. It is me texting them to see how they are doing. One of my good friends will only text me if something really good happened to him and he wants me to know about it because he is so excited.
-I met this guy at my job 2 years ago, and I considered us to be really good friends and we spent a lot of time talking to each other while on the job and hung out after work many times. After he quit, he told me to text him. It's been 5 months and he never texted me! I sent him a reach out text and we talked for a little bit... but since then he has never texted me at all to see how I am doing!
-I make sure I remember birthdays and special events that happen in my friends life. I recently graduated college and none of my friends even bothered to say congrats to me... at all.
I have Facebook, Twitter and and I text my friend. I am always the one to see how they are doing, I am always the one to text them and reach out, they never see how I am doing or ask about me. If I don't keep in contact with my friends, I will never hear from them ever. This isn't some of my friends... this is everyone I meet! If I died, nobody would even know!
Does this happen to anyone else?
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Honestly it's not just you. I was really good friends with this guy, to the point where he would call me his sister. Then one day we got moved to different classes and he completely shut me out along with my other friends. He used to say 'Hi' to me now he doesn't even look at me.1