So I was dating this girl for 3 months. We had a fall out we didn't speak for 5 days. She comes back to me telling me that she hates me not being in her life at all that she would at least want a friendship. I say ok. We go out to dinner and she tells me one of her coworkers likes her and she likes him too. She also says her feelings for me have not gone away. She said the first thing that attracted her to the coworker is how much he reminds her of me. I started to be a little bit distant and I notice she is bothered by it. She gets jealous when I talk about other girls or see pictures of me with other girls. She gets bothered because I stopped saying good morning. Today she texted me saying "feel free to text me good morning or something? Just throwing that out there" and if I don't text her back at night she responds with "well I'm going to sleep now ok good night". What confuses me is that if she tells me I'm just a friend and she's dating this other guy now why give me all this crap. She asked me to take her to an appointment of hers and I said yes but I fell asleep before work (I work graveyard shift) and she texted me good night and we'll I was asleep and she texted me I asked my mom to take me it's okay you don't have to take me anymore. I mean really? I mean don't get me wrong I do want to be with her but I can't be just an option!. What can I do? I know it's complicated as hell but she means a lot to me. Her whole family loves me and that's something I want in a relationship. A healthy relationship with the family but her dating the other guy and she acting like that kind of confuses me. Oh and she keeps me involved in some of her family stuff and sometimes holds my hand. I know I'm a fool.
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Get away while you can. Woman like this are vampires, they'll suck the life out if you.1