Is it mainly his confidence or attitude or looks? If it's a mix, which is the most significant?
- Below average looksVote A
- Lack of confidenceVote B
- Bad attitude/personalityVote C
Most Helpful Girl
I said bad attitude/personality because that is SUCH a turn off. If he's trying to get me to go away, then believe it, it works.
I also think that if the guy is nice and has some confidence it's because he's trying to hard. I remember this old movie called Rock n' Roll highschool where Tom, the highschool hero tries everything under the sun to impress a girl and it fails. It's because we KNOW you're trying to impress us. We find it more attractive and become interested when we see a guy's goal in life isn't to try and snag a chick. When his interests are on other things that make him unique, it's then we find him attractive and get curious.1
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