So there's this girl I really like but we didn't have any classes together freshman year so I met her through friends. We talked a lot (with other people around) and she would always smile and laugh. We have a lot in common and I started to fall for her. I even walked her halfway home after school a couple times. So I started to text her a few times a week with long, personal conversations although I always initiated them. Eventually I worked up the courage to ask her for ice cream after school. She told me she had to work on a project (she's a great student like me) that she had mentioned before, and I thought it was a legit reason to say no especially because she seemed to resent it. So one of my mutual friends talked to me near the end of the year and told me that she said she didn't like me. As hard as it was, I didn't text her at all after that. So halfway through summer, she texts me first (for the first time) and we talked about our summer. Since then, we've been texting about every other day and she starts the convos as often as I do. We flirt a little and tease each other but nothing excessive. I don't know if she just wants to be friends or if she changed her mind about me (or if she always liked me?)? I want to ask her to the movies but I don't want to look like a fool. Sorry this was WAY too long.
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From the sounds of it, when she said she didn't like you; you guys did not know each other well enough. With some people, the acceptance of themselves liking someone or even just liking someone takes time. It is just one of those moments where you will probably have to really get to know each other before a relationship works1