Everywhere i go, women seem like they have lots of friends and a social life and even boyfriends dates or husbands. I'm talking about ladies in their 20s and 30s cause i'm around that age.
Anyways, they seem like they don't care and like they don't worry about things like getting Boyfriend or dates. Obviously it's cause it's easy for them to get that.
Yet tons of men have trouble and you can even see it from the way they look that they have no GF and are struggling.
You can just sense it. Even if there were Women who also are lonely, i guarantee you there's a million times more guys who don't even have a chance of ever having anything.
Why is this? Is it because women do in fact love Active, outgoing and Social Guys only? It does seem like it. The social guys always seem like they have girls
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No, there are plenty of us women in our 20s who have never had a boyfriend. I didn't go on a date until I was 20 because I was told that I had to wait for a guy to ask me out. And then no guy asked me out. So I thought something was wrong with me. But then I started asking guys out. And at first they all turned me down, which made me feel any worse. So I learned how to flirt. I learned how to talk to guys. And then I asked a guy out and finally he said yes.
Guys always assume that it's so easy for girls, but you have to realize that there are a lot of guys out there who would fuck me but not actually want to date me.
I learned that if you want something, you have to go for it. But there are plenty of women who are not likely to ever have a boyfriend. There is nothing wrong with them, they are just not social and stay home all the time and don't put any effort into finding someone. You just don't realize they exist, because you don't see them.
And social people always look like they are having more fun, because they're always surrounded by people and laughing and talking all the time. That doesn't mean their lives are perfect. But that's one of the ways I learned how to flirt: I became more social. Looking at me at a party, you would never be able to tell that I'm a virgin who's never had a boyfriend. But just because i look happy, it doesn't mean I'm not lonely inside.4