I'm curious if the guy I am dating has some sort of "issue" or "bad history" that he wouldn't otherwise tell me about. His family lives in a different state, so I have not yet met them. Would it be weird to secretly reach out to his sister on Facebook and voice my concerns?
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yes. very fcking weird. don't do it. dontoverstep ur boundaries.. if u feel like he has issues then distance urself from him but they will look at u like a looney toon for asking people u don't even know about a guy u aren't even that serious with1