Okay, like, why is being nice to girls a bad thing? Rather, why do girls themselves act like it's a bad thing? Sites like jezebel demand respect and courtesy for women (or worship rather) yet demonize nice guys, um, what, that makes no sense. Apparently, if you're nice to a girl you're a misogynyst, dick, loser, and a potential rapist... because you're nice, because, that makes sense? Also, apparently you're manipulative if you're nice to the girl you like, because in Loony Land you should treat girls you barely know like crap on general principal, and don't you dare try to get to know her, no, that's a douchebag move and manipulative, just bang her outright and leave. Oh yeah, and if you get rejected, don't get mad, and don't stop being their friend either and especially don't stop giving them favors, because if you do, you're a dick. And if, by any chance, this pure anti-logic finally takes its toll on your sanity and you become bitter, that's you're fault because you're nothing but a filthy bitter misogynystthat won't find a girl until either he cleans up his "act" or she's pushing 40.
Rant over, point being, this whole demonization of being nice is completely insane, what do you think, especially girls. Is it wrong to be nice or "the nice guy".
As a side note, screw you jezebel, you managed to lower my opinion of both feminism and females in general so screw you.
Also, as I know some people will say this, no, I don't think I'm misogynyst, I'm just confused and upset, but, if you want to insult me, ho for it.
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there's nothing wrong with being nice. and if your thinking about the thing were "girls like bad boys nice guys finish last" UHM OKAY NO. i find the the whole "nice guy finish last" thing started because whenever a guy gets rejected a girl would usually say "youre a nice guy and all but id rather be friends" like wtf do you expect her to say "you hella ugly i dont like you or nah bro" i find that a lot of "nice guys" have trouble getting with a girl is because theyre hella friendly. AND friendly does not equal relationship.0