I have been going out with my girlfriend for over a year and a half now. She just recently came back from travelling. However when she came back things were not the same as she left. She developed feelings for another guy while she was away and when she came back she wanted space apart to clear her head. She is texting a guy who she works with at the moment but after what had happened recently I am finding it difficult to trust her talking to other guys. Am I over reacting? I have never been in a long term relationship before so this is still new to me. I completely trust her but I keep having doubts.
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I wouldn't say she's cheating, yet. But having doubts in a relationship isn't good. And no offense but, you don't COMPLETELY trust her, do you? Why would you doubt her and post this question then? In a way, you have the right to react so. She just said she developed feelings for another and that is the WORST sign. And I can see why she asked for a break, and that's good. But when she likes another while in a relationship, that's when you know it gets messy. If it's a coworker, I don't think it's safe to act on your doubts yet. She doesn't SEEM like the type to go for another guy like that if she asked for a break. But she could be. And sorry to add to your list of doubts, but how do you know it's a coworker?0