I have a boyfriend JJ, but we don't do anything! In fact its like we avoid each other. So I started devoloping feelings for my friend, lets call her T for safety reasons. So Tati and i were at a pool party and she spanked my butt. Does that mean she's gay or just a big jokester? As Catholics, my mom says all gays go to hell. Should i talk to her about this or leave it be? And what about JJ? Should i make a move on T? HELP!
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Short answer is, that, if you and JJ don't do anything together, and even avoid eachother, then that's reason enough to move on from JJ for a start.
She might be interested in you, after all, you are developing feelings towards her. And your mom, I think will probably become more accepting of homosexuality if her own daughter is a homosexual. I mean, for parents, the welfare of their own child is the most important thing to them in the entire world. If your friend makes you happy in a relationship, I seriously think she may be willing to put that aside to help you.
And yes, make a move on T. If you like her, and she is interested in you, then one person has to step up. If you're willing to do that, then do it.0