I've been to an "exclusively dating" kind of relationship with this guy for 5 months but we haven't called each other boyfriend/girlfriend yet. Haven't met any of his friends and relatives and he met mine already. We have different religion and his religion forbid them to date or have a relationship outside their faith. We meet every Sundays or one weekday to watch movie, dine in or do intimate moment (at least once or 2x a month) together. He said "luvu" through fb chat during the 3rd month of our dating and I didn't reply. And after a month I left an "I love you" in his fb chat and didn't get a reply.
We went out yesterday to celebrate my son's birthday. We checked in to a hotel and spent our night there. We had a bottle of tequila and I feel a little drunk after. I asked him to give me a massage after and he gave me one. After that I was laying on our bed and I cuddled him, said thank you and I love you and my most low voice. He didn't reply but he kissed my forehead immediately like 3x and he kissed me on my cheek, and we shared a passionate kiss. After that he was like asking for a sex but I told him I have my period and he said he doesn't care. We did it in the jacuzzi and he was gentle and I felt it was a passionate one. After that to my surprise he assisted me to wear the bathrobe and wear my clothes. After that we lay again in our bed and told him again "I love you". He kissed me again on my forehead and soft kisses on my lips. Then he grabbed my hand and put it on his chest.
Then a while ago we watched a movie. To my surprise he is putting his arms around my shoulders which he don't usually do.
I want to know why isn't he replying verbally. Does it mean he doesn't love me back or he is expressing himself through actions. What does his actions mean?
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I'd say he's more or less expressing himself through his actions. It's not very often a guy tells a girl "I love you" unless it's the deep, intoxicating kind of love in which case he feels an unhealthy urge to pour his heart out; But yes, I thinks he loves you.0