I've been talking to him for over a month now.. but we treat each other as if we're dating; we go on dates, make out, hold hands, talk on the phone almost every night, and text throughout the day. i met his friends, brother, and dad, and we've talked about making it official but the reason we haven't done so is because my parents dont approve of me getting in a relationship right now.
my point is, recently i felt that he is getting a bit too sexual/controlling on me (ex: we'd be kissing and he'd grip on to me when i try to pull away as a joke), and its not that i dont like it.. but i think that if he had real feelings for me he'd respect me and not want to be so controlling of my body.
there's a lot of physical attraction between us, which is what's confusing me... because we're so passionate with each other physically but we also get along like friends, which is a good thing, but i'm afraid this might be all there is to it, just the physical stuff. what i'm trying to say is this guy is doing all the right things, he's a gentleman and he has good manners, but could these all be signs that he's just a very smooth, convincing player?
please help me out, all answers appreciated!!
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This is so typical, and one of the things that drives guys crazy. "This guy is doing all the right things, he's a gentleman and he has good manners" but he's still suspected of being a no good "player." So how can he win? He can't. He's damned if he does, and damned if he doesn't.0
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