Im very confused and before I list the story, I have to say I've never been with a girl who's had this situation and I honestly am trying to handle it as best I can, but if you could give me any advice that would be great.
Date girl for 3 months
Take her out numerous times, around 7
She always is super happy at the end and thanks me and thanks me through text and says she wants to do it again
Does the whole handholding thing in public and was always clinging to me
When things escalated from making out, she got scared and we had a talk. she was really hurt bad in the past and hasn't dated anyone since, the guy tried to force her into doing things she didn't want to and use her and cheated on her. I care more about her as a person and wouldn't want to force her into doing anything she isn't comfortable with. I told her this and was completely honest, and she said she even liked me more and wants something with me. But wants to be sure of this, before she commits and knows we will get intimate. I then just invited her out to do little things to get to know each other more with less pressure than like a date. She wasn't able to do them, so I talked to her again. She still wants to do stuff, so I left it up to her to plan the next thing we do. But we haven't contacted each other for a week. Did I do the right thing? How do I go about something like this?
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You sound like an awesome gentleman! and good for you by sticking it through and not runnin off. Since this situation has come up, she's probably dealing with the hurt again, and maybe even dwelling on it, it seems like and probably scared. That had to be a horrific experience, I can't even imagine. You did and are doing the right thing. While it's not good I wait around forever give her a bit more time. Let a few days go by and let her know you're thinkin of her or "hey hope ya have a good day" she likes you and a lot it seems. She'll get back to you either way.0