My date likes to keep himself busy from work. And he hasn't plan for our 2nd date yet? But we still keep in touch by texting each other and the only thing is that his diffrent then other guys I met. On the first date he kissed &hug me and we talk quite less. Today we texted and I told him: When we met? Do I look cute? ( He replied: You gotta go to the gym, focus on ur career. Cas I can't tell u anything for now,) It was funny too me at first wen he told me to go to gym, he wanted me to kept myself busy and find a FT job. And he even want to kw my full name & religion so I text him and let him kw and I wanted to know his full name too? But he wouldn't let me,
( he replied me: Big Story, will tell u later) I say pls and He replied: I don't like you to be pushy dear. And So I aplogise to him..
( He replied to me also : I can feel We can be good friends for now. ) What is that mean? Just being friends or Bf relationship think?
Pls what do you think about it? I just don't know why his being so private cause we are dating? And the 2nd date he plans when his free from work & his job was a Technology Engineering that why his very busy.
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Doesn't seem like he want's another date, but the's going about the wrong way, if it were me I would be the kind of guy to tell you straight up I don't want to see you if I didn't want a second date. Saves both of us time, and awkwardness. It's usually nothing to do with them I'm just not looking for anything serious so why bother, since I really only went on the date because my friends set it up insisting I need someone in my life lol.0