I have been dating a co-worker for 3 months. He is the controller and I am in customer service. We work with about 6 other people in the office. When I was hired our boss gave him a speech about not thinking about trying anything with me but we joined a volley league together and started talking more outside of work. We really hit it off and had a lot of nice dates after that. We are now at the point where we aren't dating other people and in a "normal" circumstance would progress to becoming bf and gf. I also should add that we live in a small town where everybody knows everybody business so we have keep things hush hush from everyone... I'm looking for advice on what to do now since our feelings have grown stronger and it's hard to take the next step knowing we could get fired if work found out. Neither one of us get any thrill from keeping things secret and it's weighing heavy on our minds.
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Well, most people already know about the relationship. I work in a close environment and relationships are known. The biggest thing is to not show any feelings and remain professional in the working environment. Don't show any PDA when you're in public; only show the emotional connection in your house. Also, just accept the fact one of you or both of you may get fired. Prepare for that too if you decide to walk down this path.1
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