I think my ex after our break up wants his ex back. I don't want him back at all, as I wasn't happy, but it bothers me profoundly. I have a pain in my chest, because it's like I meant nothing and that is a really bad thing to feel. How do I cope with this, pls help?
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I think the pain you are feeling is more of a blow to your ego. the sense that perhaps the relationship was so bad that he'd actually go back to the girl who came before you
How do you cope. I think a healthy thing is to just (and it sounds simple but it isn't mentally simple) just let him go. remind yourself of all the bad things about him and tell yourself if he wants to go back to her and she wants to take him back let them be miserable together.
also consider that you are moving forward, if he wants to move backwards, then good for him. it only hurt his potential to improve his life by not moving forward to something better in life1
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