Like If u were shy and they were loud or the other way around cause I am a goody goody and don't get in trouble at all. I only have had one detention. And I like boys that r bad boys on the outside but sweet on the inside so my question is do u like some one that have a opposite personally or that is different than you?,
- yesVote A
- noVote B
- I don't knowVote C
- sometimesVote D
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Not opposite in everything, but in some things.
For example I am the most unintimidating creature I know. People tell me I look cute and even childlike, I'm fragile, I'm sensitive, though not emotional, I'm very giving and nurturing with people I love (probably a flaw sometimes), I'm kind and polite with people, I'm cheerful almost all the time, I'm shy, I'm submissive naturally and I dislike confrontation (even tough I can engage in it if backed into a corner), I'm clumsy, introverted and absent minded, when I relax I can goof off a lot and I can be annoying and whiny when I really want something.
I'd love to date a guy who can balance these out for me for sure. A guy who can scare people. A guy people just can't mess with (this includes me). Who is bigger and can protect me, who wants to provide for me and who will be selfish and let me dote on him like I do with all my loved ones. A guy who has a decent head on his shoulders, is determined and realistic. A guy who isn't afraid to say/do what he thinks is true and what needs to be said/done, not caring about politeness, niceness and not be scared by others. (I don't want a nice guy.) A guy who has good reflexes and attention span, so he can stop me from accidentally being killed by cars. A guy who knows what he wants and is dominant, a leader, who is a bit more serious about life, and is not sensitive like I am (tough on the inside, I know guys are actually very fragile too).
Now keep in mind, just because I'm wimpy doesn't mean I want to date Stalin. I do care more about him being smart, honorable, loving and kind, more than I care about him "completing me". But above is what usually attracts me to guys.1