I didn't really think I'm that fat but it turns out I've been a bit deluded... I saw some recent pictures of myself and I look pretty large. I also checked my weight and I'm about 220 pounds (and 5'5") so I'm quite overweight.
I have a boyfriend who is always telling me I'm beautiful and sexy etc. Now when I realised how big I actually am I brought the subject up and asked what he thinks about my weight and is he attracted to me. He said that he likes me just as I am, and thinks my body is curvaceous and womanly and my figure turns him on. He's quite fit himself and I know his previous girlfriends were slim/fit, so I'm wondering what he sees in me!
We have a good relationship and sex life, too. I have no other reasons to doubt his attraction than his previous gf's and now when I look myself in the mirror I see just too much fat and a really unattractive ugly body.
I'd like to know guy's opinions, is it possible for a guy to be attracted to a fat/obese body or is he automatically just lying?
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yes its possible. there's many different kinds of people on this Earth and we all think differently and have our own preferences. don't let society get you down, you have a man who loves you for you. it doesn't have to be societies way!2