I'm asking this for my female friend
She met a guy and they hit it off. A day later, he admits he's also seeing someone else. she feels a bit weary because she's gotten attached to guys before only for them to pick someone else, or something goes wrong.
he keeps insisting he wants to get to know her (my friend) because him and the first girl may not work out or like eachother, but my friend keeps backing off and saying "i rather not compete. either she goes or i go" (and she did not say that like a controlling bitch btw)
Any guys and girls how would you feel in that situation?
- Drop himVote A
- compete and show you're betterVote B
- other (post what)Vote C
Most Helpful Guy
Pretty sure nobody likes to be the backup or "2nd pick", even if both girls in this scenario
are candidates for a first pick, the thought of being compared to someone else by a person
who should only look at you, I can't imagine that feels all too well.
On the other hand, the fact that he told her means he's at the
very least honest, and that's a good thing in a relationship.. ^.~0