How can I get this girls attention without looking like a thirsty guy around her, She favors Black/American on the top of her list, but I'm not Black, so she's basically least interested in me, but I think she sees me as a Friend, there is 3 other guys that are Black/American that's always around her. they flirt with her, but she just seems more interested, She does say Hi now and then, but always around them, So I really can't have a conversation, How can I talk to her, how should I talk to her? I really like this girl, but yet I don't have the nerves to, So girls, if you were in my Situation, what would you do?
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When i used to work at the smoothie bar at a gym I had a guy like you come around time to time... (It isn't a bad thing to not be someones type and it isn't a bad thing to have nerves). There would guys at the smoothie bar just sitting there for a good amount of time - just for conversation and attention... Then there was this one guy, Jay (not my type and very timid)... I knew he was interested in me but I was seeing someone at the time and plus, he wasn't my type. He still kept his presence though... Even with two to three standing there talking at me, he would stand next to them and just smile or try and crack a joke. He was the only guy that I talk to till this day (four years later) and the only guy that I would consider dating now - if I had never moved.
Females "types" change... Just because she has a preference in physical appearance - doesn't mean she completely writes you off. Just show up and make a presence for yourself. You won't go unnoticed. I promise you that.0