There is a girl I have liked for couple weeks now and I snapchat and text her a lot. But a guy I know told me he got a ton of nudes from her and he said he's never going to hang out with her he's just getting nudes from her and I know other guys did too. They are still best friends on snapchat too. Should I still go after her? Should I tell her that they are just using her?
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Ooooo this is a tough one... Because you don't want her to be offended.
There is a girl at my school who gets used like this, she is also a blowjob giver... She is known throughout the boys as "Crabbie Abbie". Absolutely horrible. I have seen a bunch of guys saying hey give me a blowjob, get me skittles, buy me this, give me that... And she falls for it and does it each and everytime for the "respect" and attention from the boys. Although she doesn't realise that they are laughing about, and just using her behind her back.
I think that the best thing to do here... Is if you do like her, why give up? You've come this far and everyone makes mistakes. Maybe what she actually needs is someone who can be close and give her that love that she secretly longs for through the attention of sending nudes. I think you should go for it!0