I've been seeing this guy for a a little over a month now. We met at a sneaker release in the mall. He's perfect. So much fun, the best personality, and not at all immature. We really hit it off at the sneaker release that day. He asked how old I was and I told him the truth (24, turning 25 in December). He told me he was 22 turning 23. I've dated younger guys before so that small age difference didn't bother me.
I never had any reason to believe he was lying to me about his age. He even has an ID with his name and picture and everything on it so we could go out to bars together.
Well... yesterday I found out that he is 18 years old!!!
And yes we've had sex twice. What do I do? I really liked him and never for a second thought he was anything but 22 going on 23. Turns out he just graduated high school this year. I feel completely disgusting because there is a good 6 years between us and not to mention he has been lying to me this entire time... making me believe he was almost 23. Do I stop seeing him completely? I'm truly shocked that he's only 18 years old... please help I don't know what the hell to do!!
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Cudos to the boy for trying to date up.
Sorry he lied though. That's fubar, and grounds for dumping.
Still though. If he was fun to hang out with when you thought he was older, has he harmed you? Could you put it down as a white lie? Maybe.
I tried for ages to get an older Portugese girl to date me when I was a young soldier. I finally had to go all macho and convince her to stop treating me like a little boy before I got anywhere. It sounds like he went cougar hunting and you got tagged. All that remains to be seen is whether you want some more.0
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