Hey i needed some advice about a guy im seeing and like alot. We've been talking and going on dates for 4 months now and I decided to ask him about our "status" on the relationship. We BOTH agreed to continue going on dates but not put the "label" on us yet. He told me that I'm the only girl he's seeing, that he’s been “exclusive" for me for the past few months, and that he likes me. That same night we made plans for Wed (the "talk" was on sunday). Tuesday comes along and he texted asking if we can reschedule to friday/saturday (we picked friday). On Friday, he texted me saying he has to cancel cause "hes not in the mood" and apologized few times for cancelling twice. I asked him if i did something and he replies saying “not really, Im so out of it” and apologized again. I asked him if he wanted to reschedule for Sat and he never replied back. I messaged if everything is okay and was it because of his sickness (he was sick few days ago) but no replies. He is normally a private person and keeps most things to himself but i dont know why he's ignoring me when im trying to help. He never replied to my messages for 4 days now. I can't help to think maybe i did something since we just "talked about us" just days ago.. but right now im planning not to message him for couple of days. I just dont know what happened or what changed for him to start ignoring me. In my last text to him I asked him to tell me straight up whats happening and if he doesn’t wanna talk anymore to just say it. Cause right now im super confused and hate feeling “hanged on”. Any advice?
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I believe you tried too hard. You shouldn't text him or reschedule a date.
There could be three reasons:
1. He's playing this game to make you fall for him. ( so far he's been successful)
2. He is busy with something serious and more important.
3. He's just not into you.
Either way l you should leave the ball in his court and wait.0
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