I've been seeing this guy for a while. It's a long distance relationship. He's a really sweet guy and loves me to death but I found out recently he was a stoner. I dated smokers before and my parents weren't too happy about it. He's trying to get a job but where he lives, it's difficult to get a job and he lives with his grandmother. I love him but I don't want to string him along if my parents don't approve.
Should I continue the relationship and ignore my parents or drop it?
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I'd avoid it just because someone who has no responsibilities, job and chooses to be in a state of non reality for a large portion of their life is not someone I'd want to be with. It shouldn't be for your parents, you should want more for yourself. Do you really think this guy is mature? Is he ready for a relationship? By what you've mentioned, I doubt it. You can do better.1