I'm not looking like Tom Cruise...
But the Girl i love (& she loves me too) used to tell me (before I proposed) that she likes long hair, handsome, taller than her, funny, having athletic personality, can make her smile... and sooo on.
I have not ALL of those qualities but i do love her desperately and can do anything for her smile...
So, what u say?
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Yeah, I was like your gf until I met a Mr Average.
I was not initially attracted to him as he wasn't my type (i like Swedish boys). He is British, plain looking, has dark hair and short ish, wears specs. He is quite an alpha male, cheeky and not afraid to challenge me (most men just kind of try to charm my pants off).
So bottom line is, people have an idea in their head of what they want, but that is a generalisation and hypothetical concept.
No one rejects an ideal guy in real life over a a hypothetical concept based on a tired stereotype, women don't tend to recognise this reality until it happens to them.1