My boyfriend is sorta a redneck and I'm more of a hippie I love him so much but he hates drugs and I love them. I have tried talking to him about it and he just gets pissed and tells me he will break up with me if I don't quit. I don't want him to leave me but I wanna live my own life the way I choose.
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Honestly if your bf wants you to stop doing drugs and smoking then he might be thinking long term. You sound like you are stuck in the here and now, while he is thinking long term. Honestly there is a reason that long term drug use is not a good idea. You are trying to convince him that its ok to add chemicals to your body and not be in control of yourself. Im sure you think its a freedom of some sort. Honestly Im in the same boat as your bf, if Im dating someone and i find out they do drugs, (marijuana the exception, but there is a difference between smoking every so often and being a stoner) Im out. I dont want that around me, and if this person is someone Im going to spend my life with and have a family, I dont want it around my kids either.1