I don't get approach
People here say I'm like a 7 or 8.
I don't consider myself ugly
I'm shy but I'm not a B
I do smile to some (strangers) guys that I find interesting
I try to look good
I... idk. What am I missing? I'm not a boring dull person. I promise ): it'll almost be 3 years of the single life. I'm scared to stay single another 3+ years.
Help? How can I be approachabe?
What makes a girl approachable?
Most Helpful Guy
Well, first thing is that you don't have to think there is anything wrong with you just because you have been single for 3 years. I know a lot of girls who wish they had only been single for 3 years, and there is nothing wrong with any of them. It is not a failing on your part in any way.
The easiest way to not be single is to start asking guys out yourself. You will face a lot of rejection, but you will find boyfriends that way. And you will also learn why it can be incredibly hard for guys to ask out girls while you are doing it, as guys can fear rejection too.
The alternative to that, if that is a bit intimidating, is to get active in smaller clubs and activities that will have guys with interests similar to your own. A running club, a book club, take a language class, take dancing lessons... whatever. Just start doing things that are specifically tailored to interests and you will be finding yourself in small groups with people that share your interests. That will immediately give you something to talk about, and provide you with a low stress environment for a guy to approach you. He can start talking to you casually without having to worry about the rejection part, and that can make it way easier to then ask you out. You do not want to just find any ol' guy to be a boyfriend, just for the sake of having one. You want to find one that shares your interests, that's the best way to find one that has a better opportunity to last. So pursue opportunities to actively pursue those interests, preferably in ways that involve smallish groups.0