If a person you just started dating asked you to go get tested with them would what would you say or feel? Would you do it?
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If I wanted to have sex, sure. I have nothing to hide, so basically it would be me just making sure they're clean. I have been in situations where I was asked to be tested, and did - glad to know that the guy I was going to be with took sex seriously enough to be safe. Then I have also asked a guy to get tested and he did without question.
I'd be more concerned if someone kicked a fuss over it, or just said, "I'm clean" if I asked. To me, that's not good enough. I like to see it for myself especially when we are just starting out. If there is nothing to hide, then there should be no problem in going in again to let me know it. :)1