I get a common norm is to see multiple people and pick one to be exclusive with at some point.
I get that isn't weird for people. I personally wouldn't do it because I don't think it's fair to the guys I would be seeing.
The guy I was seeing said he wanted to date, then said he would date when he had time for me. Then he mentioned he didn't want to be exclusive right now, while also mentioning he had no time for any girl.
He confused me so I talked to him about it and he said he would see other people if he met someone he was more compatible with.
The entire time he was definitely trying to push my physical boundaries and I could tell he found me sexually appealing. He was aware the entire time that I did not want to sleep with him though.
Is it safe to say a guy who does things like this basically wants to sleep with me and not much else?
He would say things that made me think he cared but he didn't seem to have much interest in me when he couldn't physically be with me.
I get why people might not want to be exclusive right away, but what he did isn't normal right?
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"The guy I was seeing said he wanted to date, then said he would date when he had time for me. Then he mentioned he didn't want to be exclusive right now, while also mentioning he had no time for any girl."
There is your answer right there. He is not really into you. He's full of shit and you need to accept that. Don't let him waste your time. You are just a back up he is trying to fuck. Go and find yourself a boyfriend who will really like you. This guy certainly doesn't. Trust me.0