I met this girl that is attractive and I was interested in her, we have a lot in common. We went out on our first date and it went great, I felt like I was really connecting with her. We went to a rodeo and then out to a bar. Out of the blue she stated introducing me as her Boyfriend!!! Boyfriend, what the hell. Is she crazy? On drugs? Should I leave her. I like her but can't imagine her calling me her boyfriend on our first date.
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Since you started out your questions with all positives about her - you find her attractive; you were interested in her; you and her have a lot in common; your first date was great' you felt like you were connecting; Forget the rest of the story and give her another chance to see if you can figure out why the boyfriend stuff so soon. She's definitely jumping the gun but she might really like you already so why not find out what's going on during your second date. As long as you feel you can handle her, what's the harm of another date? Sounds like she's been to that bar before and knows a few people. You'll know a lot more after your second date. Don't drill her but do ask her a few interesting questions to see if by chance she's starved for love, has some ulterior motive, or calls her date "boyfriend". Just be nice to her and I'm sure you'll have most of your concerns figured out on this next date. So don't leave her yet. I don't think this is a "being on drugs" problems because you'd noticed that before you got to the bar. Good luck!0