I hate cigarettes. My boyfriend smokes but I'm not controlling or judgmental at all so I don't really let it bother me. When we first started dating we both smoked but we quit together. When we broke up he started again and when we got back together I didn't say anything about it. I quit because it makes me feel sick and gross but it's not fair because I still feel like that when I'm around it. Also I have asthma and he smokes in his car with me and I want to puke! He tastes and smells like an ash tray. I hate it but I won't make him quit. I don't want to tell him what to do or make him hide anything from me
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Honestly if it's bothering you, you should let him know. Tell him not to smoke around you. I'm gonna let you know that if you just say "I hate it that you smoke" it's gonna sound hypocritical because you used to smoke as well. That's probably why he thinks you don't mind.
As for me, I smoke, & most of the guys I'm interested in also smoke, so yeah.0