Is it okay to tell my boyfriend what I want for my birthday?
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It's good to give him ideas, especially if he is really clueless, and doesn't listen to your 'hints' when you are together talking, or shopping.
I listened to her/them, but never did what they expected, yet they all loved it!!
For one, I found her favorite wine, and made a perfect, vegetarian stir fry, with tofu (that I HATE!!! But it tried to make the dish three times, before I got it right!!!) She knew she would spend the night, and she wasn't wanting what I thought (thanks female friends!!!) I got candles, and some bubbly bath flower stuff, and she loved it!!!
Later, another was a Native American, and we talked a lot, and i follow their Ways, now, because of her! She talked about 'Spirit Guides' and she didn't tell me hers, but I figured out her favorite, and found a HUGE stuffed turtle, Keya, the Earth Mother of North America, and she couldn't believe that I figured it out, and she loved it, even to this day, 10 years later!!
Give him hints, and see what he comes up with! He might surprise you!!1