Okay so I'm 19 and have never been asked out. I've always have said "just wait there's no reason to rush life" but honestly seeing other being happy and being inlove hurts. I have never had a boy show intrest in me not that I've noticed. I've just graduated high school and all my entire high school expierence I've never had a friend whos a guy i mean i did talk to some and chatted but they being my friend friend never. I don't close myself and ignore them so i don't know what is the problem. I admit I'm a chubby girl so i guess that might be the problem... i don't think im ugly no girl would say they are but i don't think im ugly. I'm outgoing i talk to people I'm always respecful to others i shy away sometimes but is that really a problem for guys to not talk to me? I dnt smoke or go out to party I'm not a wild girl i prefer to just chill and hang out i don't drink and sometimes i fel like a loser and think maybe thats what guys like but I'm not changing for anyone i just want someone who will like me for being me! So do you think those are why I've never had a guy ask me out?
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Girl, please, you're beautiful. You're on the right path, so don't even feel as though you're an outcast or weird or what have you, just because you see other girls on a different road than you. There is nothing wrong with you except that you believe there is. All you should be worrying about right now is if you love yourself more today than you did yesterday and the boys will come in due time. From here, it seems as though you don't give yourself much credit which is unfortunate because you deserve that. If it hurts seeing other people together while you're alone, it just means you have to start liking how your own company feels first. The world will never run out of boys, even when you start dating and you get pissed and desperately wish they all moved to Mars. There will always be one out there looking for you. But he will want you to love yourself first. You're cool, don't even worry about it.1