I'm 17, nearly 18 and never had a boyfriend. I don't know why but is there any advice you would give me?
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Let me give you some advice don't rush into falling in love so quickly because you'll just get hurt that's what I learned. I had my first bf at 12 we met in middle school. Looking back I wish I had listened to my dad he was sweet and everything was going smoothly. But over the summer in 2013 he began changing and drinking and stuff and didn't try to slow down or anything. We were together for 5 years and have not talked for 5 months. My dad wanted me to wait because he didn't want me to get hurt. I broke up with my ex on the first week of school in August 2013, didn't talk for 5 months and he came back to me in January 2014. He said he loved me but something told me it was a trap. I wanted to say let me go but I guess I got so happy about seeing him that I forgot how he had treated me. He led me on and chewed me up and spit me out. He treated me like a dog, he didn't know what a relationship was, I always did all the work and he cheated on me, lied to me, etc. He's nice and all but he doesn't know what a relationship is and he doesn't KNOW how to make it work. He broke up with me in March 2014 right out of blue I was confused didn't know what to do, I cried right of him and tugged onto his arm but he was so busy to get back to his friends. My advice is wait till you are ready and have found the right guy don't just settle for anyone like I did just to prove my farther wrong. My ex wanted a baby at 17 yet he doesn't know how a relationship works. Get to know a guy if you really like him because my ex liked me too a lot but we never got to know each other and I think the best relationships start off as friends. Don't rush falling in love so quickly because you'll just hit your head. I really thought he loved me but I see what he is now a "player." He flirts with to many girls, asks them for there number, etc. Don't get hurt like I did because I learned a lot from it. Give it time or what till college to start dating. You don't need a boyfriend to make you happy.0
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