I am 23, and my best friend is a girl. I have known her since I was middle school. We also went to the same high school and the university (it was a university in our hometown).
During the course of our friendship... it remained just that... FRIENDS!
I have dated a few girls and had sex once. And she has dated a few guys and had sex a few times. Nothing major.
Despite all this... we feel very comfortable around each other. Sometimes she will come to my apartment and we will cuddle and watch a movie. We share each other's drinks. She sometimes sleeps with me in my bed when she stays over (nothing sexual involved).
We have also seen each other naked many times and we aren't afraid of being naked around each other. For example, after we work out at the gym, we go back to my place and shower together.
I would like to say that there is no sex in this relationship. We have never had sex together and we have never kissed. When we first saw each other naked, we jokingly took jabs at our each others parts... but we don't do that anymore.
Is it strange to be this close to a girl without being in a relationship with her?
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I don't think it's strange.0