I hang out with this girl on the weekends mostly and we usually just get drunk with our friends (this is how i met her) but she takes a lot of interest in me and we talk a lot on the phone and text and when we hang out she only talks with me and is really touchy and stuff and is always trying to get my attention and touching me. Well she just got out of a bad relationship with her boyfriend and has been talking with me more, I've known her for 10 months but she just broke up with her boyfriend like 2 weeks ago, and we hung out a few days ago and something you have to know is that she Does flirty things and wants my attention a lot but at the end of the night she will text me and say im sorry for leading you on i didn't mean to hurt you. Well this has been happening for a long time and we've become good friends/idk, but anyways she was with me a few days ago and she took my phone and hid it in her bra and made me try and find it so i felt her ass n boobs and we were laughing a lot and then later that night we had a brief 5 second kiss out of no where and it was all her doing it i had no idea it was coming. I've told her i like her and care about her a lot and that i would want to date her many times before this and she always says she loves me as a friend and doesn't want to hurt me but she wishes she could like me and says she dosnt know whats holding her back? Why does she want to talk to me and flirt with me only to hurt my feelings at the end of the day? Why can't she just say she had a good night and wants to see me again?
Why is this girl doing this to me?
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Sounds like she's a bit emotionally damaged/vulnerable... leave that ish well alone unless you're willing to really deal with it (which could involve a fair amount of emotional investment and could end in heartbreak)0
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